Love love the big love. Which organ serves you most in love?
Is it the heart ? Or could it be the brain?
Could it be the gut??
Are the gut and the brain connected? Is the heart just a pump or it the seat of the soul there?
Love is patient love is kind. Love is in essence a pure distilled un-muddied thing.
Yet the process of love is very muddy.
We all yearn for it, even the toughest amongst us. Even the hardest of the hard, well some would argue they yearn for it more. In more ways than one 😉
The body is a vessel that contains so much, working in synergy, a whole lot of stuff being co-ordinated on a minute to minute basis. A miracle indeed.
Physical, biological, chemistry and so much much more! Then throw emotion in there. It’s a wonder we can “contain” it all.
I will end with my favourite Kalil Gibran ” The deeper the sorrow carves into your being, the more joy it can contain.” Sad but happy.
So I have blogged about this before, but they are upon us now.
What should you be doing/not doing or doing differently during the holidays.
We all know that glucose control is one way in the week and quite a different way on the weekend and holidays. This is partly because we are human and life is well just not always easy and letting your hair down usually goes with a bit of alcohol (if you are old enough) and a bit of cheating (dare I say it).
So all things considered, where does this leave you with your diabetes?
Consider it. Be mindful of it. Carb count it. Accurately.
With the holidays come a little bit of time – that we don’t usually have. Choose to exercise – must be something you love. Be creative. Horse ride or bike ride or dance!
Factor the exercise in. IF you are not sure how to do this, consult someone. Even if you are on holiday – trust me most of us (health care folk) are at work : dieticians, GP’s, nurse educators etc.
Don’t just go ape on yourself. It’s so much harder to get back the lost ground.
Enjoy yourself but be fair about it. Restraint is required.
Give yourself a Christmas present of being present more often. This will carry through to the new year and be a wonderful asset.
Top sites that I feel are invaluable : http://www.fatsecret.co.za – south african ,excellent for carb counting and so much more!, pinterest has awesome pictograms of diabetes.
Feel free to share your best app, resource with me.
Hello. Today is the first of December. November (diabetes month) officially over. “Ca dover”.
Diabetes is a growing problem. Most people do NOT choose it. More so type 1 – spontaneous destruction of all beta cells of the pancreas making you insulin dependent (like alcohol dependant only a little different (this is a little joke so don’t get too upset about this statement if you are prone to getting upset).
Type 2 can be lifestyle induced but that does not mean you should judge the person. Or that anyone has given you the power to do that. Or the right.
Insulin only comes in the injectable form. Yes that means you have to inject anywhere from one to 6 x a day. Then you also have to test your sugar – another “prick” required.
So don’t be a prick to diabetics as having dealt with so many already they can’t tolerate you too. And for that matter the moms and dads of diabetic children also fall into the category of not needing any more pricks in their lives – they are hard enough. Grow some empathy. Please? Even if just for the festive season.
So, in december, the festive season. Not everyone in this life is as blessed as you : health and wealth and mental health wise. If you only do this this festive season let it be that you are kind. To all around you. Truly kind not the falsely kind of kind.
So sometimes I feel that really deep deep down in my soul I am actually a mixture of spanish, italian and a few kinds of south american.
I love to dance. Even in the light. Even in the night when no-one else is. Even in the sun shining day. Even in the hay. I just love it. I love the beat. I love music with a beat. I love music with a soul, and I love a community that embraces that as do the afore-mentioned.
As south africans and (I am told as men) dancing is something learnt whilst drunk and can only be performed in such a state and the window is quite narrow as once too many drinks are on board the physical act of standing is even hard.
So I am native to another country and my soul beats that drum.
It would be so great though if as south africans (at least) we could embrace the person who is dancing instead of rejecting, dissing and naming and shaming them.
Just a thought.
Different is not bad and it should not be intimidating. It certainly should not ever invoke nastiness.
As a nation (at least the privileged part thereof) we tend to be quite critical as well as sharp with our words. We tend to be a little arrogant and set in certain ways we call our own. There is nothing wrong with our own ways but by the same token there is also nothing wrong with another way ?
November is diabetes month – awareness around what it is and treatment etc. There is actually quite a lot of strange information that circulates, “fake-news” so to speak regarding diabetes at large.
So let’s dispel some myths.
1.) Diabetes is caused by poor diet : firstly type 1 has nothing to do with diet and is bad luck essentially. It seems to be an auto-immune disease and essentially destroys the b cells of the pancreas creating an absolute lack of insulin.
Type 2 diabetes is a lifestyle related as well as genetic disease and even more complex in nature.
Insulin resistance is a condition more and more prevalent due to lifestyle as well as stress – a big factor. More about this another time.
2.) IF you eat properly you will get better : well firstly type 1 diabetes, without insulin – you die, children in the era before 1921 died. Only since 1921 and Banting and Best’s discovery do type 1 ‘s survive with normal life expectancies.
Concerning type 2 diet is critical and important (as it is with type 1) carbs are key and obviously healthy eating and exercising are key but eating 100% correctly will unfortunately not bring back b cells that have died.
3.) Type 1 diabetics should never eat carbs : whilst one should be mindful of the type and quantity of carb and dose the insulin accordingly it is by no means advised that type 1’s exclude all carbs. This is a tricky one and best discussed in consultation with a dietician.
Why is it that when we are ill either physically or mentally and it comes to support for the person it is hard to find. In fact a very common reaction is for people by and large is to withdraw. Leaving an already vulnerable person more vulnerable and more likely to become sicker. Why do we do this as a society?
It seems we are quite cruel.
Much like being a type 1 diabetic. Once diagnosed your life depends on testing sugars and injecting insulin. People are wary, they hide, they run they disappear from your life entirely. Schools refuse to admit children with it. Kids don’t want to have them at their party. And why ?
Yes it’s different. Yes it’s a disease that requires things that some humans are uncomfortable with. But, can you not dig a little deep and conquer that fear, reach out and be a friendly face, hand , eye?
We are actually all connected and our reactions have repercussions. We have choices to make daily.
I challenge you today to not run and hide. To be present, even when it is uncomfortable. To be present. Really there. In the flesh and the mind. Present. That’s all. To be there.
Pushing past impossible is something that is actually possible.
And you know that we all – collectively benefit from that.
And the world at large can be a better place.
Why is this not a more pressing issue? The diabesity epidemic threatens to ruin the whole world and yet so much of silence?
The log curve that shows no even inkling of abating rises like a tsunami and we are all “thula-msindo” – zulu for not saying a word.
Urgent action is required, yes I said action. Urgent.
Alternatively we can go with the tsunami of medical costs that are unsustainable, ill populations, knock effect to the economy due to loss of income, knock on due to high costs (medical) etc etc. It is a disaster and yet we look on.
Wake-up oh sleeper!
Now is the time to do something, its fast becoming too late.